I have enough thoughts in a day to support several blogs, so why do I not write? Well, I am slowly getting over the stage of grief that keeps you in your place unable to move. I am really happy about that. It is a slow process. Now that I am coming around, my eyes are being flooded by two main topics in the media today. I don't even have cable and I can't help but be in the 'loop' about these two topics. They are Kony 2012 and the Trayvon stories.
I have good, honest friends who speak their minds and I love that. I recently published an article to help save a dog from injustice and a friend of mine asked me why I was not compelled to write about the bigger stories out there. I was blessed with many opinions and most of them I do not share. I chose to be this way because I like to process information and see what new directions these stories are going to take. The reason that I wanted to write about Runty is because the family who would be against him had he done anything wrong, spoke out for him. Runty was removed from his home and is being held as a 'dangerous dog' without cause. This is simple. It is very black and white. What is happening to Runty does not have the issues of missing information that the other stories have. There is no 'what if' about it. Runty can't speak for himself so I am simply doing what I can to help. Another friend mentioned that Runty is in this position because his owner was negligent. She has a valid point. Now, that part of the story I don't have much to say about simply because this is something I will never know. Runty got out of the fence. I do not have details as to how long he was out or whether or not the owner new that the fence was being compromised. I know that I have my own experiences with doggie jail breaks. Fortunately, no one is afraid of my little shitzu monsters, but it took a few trials before I finally found a solution to her escape escapades. She also shared a tragic story of loss at the hands of a pitbull. I am not going on record defending the breed as a whole. I tend to deal with things case by case. The sad story of a wild dog killing is a terrible tragedy but the entire breed shouldn't be judged by the good stories or the bad. I shared the story of a good dog. Even if the owner were negligent, the dog has done nothing to earn the title of a 'dangerous dog'. If it is okay to do it to one dog, then expect to see more of it. For all of you big dog owners out there, the results of this case can affect you. Your dobermans and pits that like to bark are all going to be in jeopardy. Any scared kid or old lady can call your dog dangerous and have them taken from you even if they would never bite. Add to this the fact that there are no reform programs for dogs they way we have for people and it is safe to assume that your dog could be put down for no reason. That worries me.
So, whose side am I on? I was never one to chose a side. I have no religious preference. I have no political preference. I believe not siding myself allows me to have a clearer view with no predisposed notions. It doesn't always work but I can't bring myself to claim my undying loyalty to anyone other than to those I love. You can win me one minute and lose me the next. It's based on actions.
My emotions are on the side of Trayvon's parents and family. They were the ones plagued with the death of such a young boy and if there is something I am an expert on now, its the toll death takes on the ones left behind. No matter what the outcome, this story is tragic and could have been avoided.
I do not feel sorry for Zimmerman. Intentions are not enough. He could have had the intentions to protect but the unfolding story tells me that he was overly vigilant. This caused him to jump to conclusions and I believe that it made him look for trouble. The thing is, what you look for most you are likely to find whether it is really there or not. It is like having a self fulfilling prophesy. This story is a great example of the reason that cops do not involve civilians in investigations. Now you arm an all ready overly vigilant man and you will eventually end up with a body. I honestly believe that this situation would have been in the cards for Zimmerman even if Trayvon was never in the area. It is really, hugely sad. Both sides of the story had the chance to back off and walk away.
Zimmerman could have fallen back after calling the cops. He didn't have to play detective and follow anyone. That behavior is offensive to anyone. Teenagers especially. Teenagers are passionate and dramatic by nature. Don't you remember how many times the world, as you knew it, was over as a teen? The class you failed, the guy you liked liking someone else, your friend is friends with someone you can't stand and all the other mellow drama. Trayvon probably felt that he was being disrespected and instead of going to his families house to share the story, he went to defend himself. No one every thinks that this person that ticked them off could do worse, especially teens. Everyone knows that teens can do anything and everything.
I wish that the police got there in time to stop this from happening. I wish that different decisions were made on that day. I wish that people stuck to fist fights like they did in the 80's when they used to get you down then walk away but these days people don't stop and they come armed. Zimmerman, being the adult in the story should have to account for his bad decision and the road that those decisions created. That is as far as I can go because I was not there. No one knows the true story and I am not a judge.
You have to admit that we live in a self centered world. This inspired masses to get involved in something. I do hope that it is not a disappointment for the masses and is the start of new things for society as a whole. If it is not a worthwhile cause, the cost was not too high. I looked up there site. The most common thing sold is their little kit with posters and such. It's $30. I don't see that as a huge, risky cost. I think it is funny that some thought they should know what percentage of the cost was being used for what services. The humor came from the fact that most of what we pay for is grossly over priced and no one asks what percentage of the $100 pre-broken in jeans are going to good causes. How much money of your restaurant trip is being used for worthy causes? The truth is that it doesn't matter. People go through $30 bucks in no time and really do not care what retailers do with their profits. So those who do not agree with any particular campaign do not have to find ways to discouraged those that feel compelled to help. Just as I said before, I will wait to see where it goes before I pick a side on the Kony situation.
So there it is my friend... this is where I stand on your important issues. I will see where they go...
Thanks for inspiring me to write.